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We recently asked straight men of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us about their experiences hooking up with other guys. Here's what they said: And as a heads up, some of these stories get kinda. From these men’s perspective, they can have it both ways — the privileges of identifying as straight and the pleasure and excitement of same-sex relationships on the side — without their identity being threatened.

Why straight men having sex with men confounds us. As a culture, we’ve begun to awaken in recent decades and acknowledge various previously unspoken manifestations of sexuality and eroticism. As a queer man in a fraternity, my college career was straight men trying to explain away their queer tendencies as jokes and misunderstandings. (Bombastic Side Eye) A Reddit user recently.

Explore why straight men hooking up with gay men happens, from curiosity and personal history to society’s role, in this revealing feature. Something has become abundantly clear to me lately, as in it keeps slapping me in the face on a weekly basis. Kinda, sorta. While the younger generation are now very comfortable with their bisexuality, millions of men around the globe are secretly hooking up with their mates and then going home to their partners.

Dude, you hooked up with a guy and by the sounds of it, enjoyed it. Who cares? Only you. High profile policemen, fireman and businessmen who are happy to pay for an overnight stay … and I am a man. And the confessions go on and on and on. Seriously, I get at least five of these confessions a week. So why are these men so firmly hidden in the closet?

Because you men are closed books. Hooking up with a fellow friend is hardly scandalous these days. To women that is. Men on the other hand, well they tend to keep it locked up like a dirty secret. Damn you gin! But did you. When you take the stigma away, it means diddly squat. These days, you can be pansexual, gender fluid, straight, bisexual, gay and everything in-between.

In fact, I had to google it myself last year. The scale typically ranges from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to a 6, meaning exclusively homosexual — and everyone sits on it at different ratings.

In fact, many studies have found you can change where you sit on it at any age. Hence why we are seeing so many people come out later in life. No matter where their sexual preferences lie.

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Do we really need to make it feel like a dirty little secret anymore. I think not. And we women are dating them. How do I know? These men tell me on a weekly basis! You are viewing 1 of 3 images Previous Image Next Image.